Sorry easy to say, but difficult to implement. Sincerely forgive requires personal maturity. In fact, the ability to forgive is a prerequisite of mental health.
For Mita (50), a long-standing friendship with (let's call it) Susi stopped in a day. Mita still remember it. It happened in 1990. When Susi "affair" with her boyfriend.
"That day Susi haltingly told me that she and my boyfriend actually had a crush on each other a long time, but just buried because they respect me. But eventually they feel uneasy to keep a secret and eventually chose to tell the truth. Why the pain incredible. Kok teganya I betrayed my best friend, "says Mita.
For Mita, Susi is the "soul mate", soulmates, because they are friends since elementary school and junior high school and high school together. Both the new "split" in college, but remained in the same city so that every weekend the two spent time together. Mita first to have a boyfriend. As a result, they often traveled three on weekends.
"All the problems that I face I always tell Susi, including the matter of a girlfriend. So you can imagine his pain. He is the one that I believe in my life. If the girlfriend does, can change," said Mita.
For Mita (50), a long-standing friendship with (let's call it) Susi stopped in a day. Mita still remember it. It happened in 1990. When Susi "affair" with her boyfriend.
"That day Susi haltingly told me that she and my boyfriend actually had a crush on each other a long time, but just buried because they respect me. But eventually they feel uneasy to keep a secret and eventually chose to tell the truth. Why the pain incredible. Kok teganya I betrayed my best friend, "says Mita.
For Mita, Susi is the "soul mate", soulmates, because they are friends since elementary school and junior high school and high school together. Both the new "split" in college, but remained in the same city so that every weekend the two spent time together. Mita first to have a boyfriend. As a result, they often traveled three on weekends.
"All the problems that I face I always tell Susi, including the matter of a girlfriend. So you can imagine his pain. He is the one that I believe in my life. If the girlfriend does, can change," said Mita.
